Great.Īfter they break-up and time has passed, when my friends ex can feel that she is emotionally moving on from him, he will cast his line into her emotional pond to reel her back in.įirst he will weasel back into her life as a "friend," Then, he will make a lot of time and effort to see her, always being readily available-again, just as friends. When it doesn't, he will emotionally push you away to make room for the next chase.
Often times he will hope the excitement that was created during the process of winning your heart will continue. This type of guy doesn't necessarily plan on being bored and disinterested. Men who enjoy the thrill of the chase don't always realize how hurtful their actions are when they end up losing interest. Also, they tend to become bored rather easily.Ĭhasing is a huge thrill, especially if you obtain what you have been chasing. Unfortunately, men who enjoy the thrill and excitement of the chase will be so good at it, that you won't be able to decipher if it's real. Nope! Honestly, the only thing you did wrong was giving this type of guy any of your attention in the first place. He starts nitpicking (a lot)-finding things about you that he doesn't likeĪs women, we will blame ourselves for this man's sudden apparent disinterest, thinking that we did something wrong.When he finally makes time for you he isn't emotionally or mentally present-he's on his phone.He is less affectionate with you in public-rarely holds hands or kisses you anymore.His schedule becomes busy with other obligations to other people and events.He doesn't include anymore you when he goes out with friends, family and/or co-workers.When he does see you, he fits you into his schedule last minute and is disengaged.You can't remember the last time he planned a date.
He rarely tells you he misses or loves you.His communication lessens-fewer calls/text messages throughout the day (and eventually during the week).Then, once you have been swept off your feet and have either slept with him, become exclusive or fallen in-love, after time (weeks to possibly three months later), his feelings toward you start to change. He's extremely mentally and emotionally available when he's with you-his phone will be off or on vibrate or he won't have it with him at all.
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